What you were describing there, that's scrolling through comments looking for the bad one,

is something I think we can all relate to, because I will get 99.9% like great comments.

And then it'll be, as you say, the one that's either that's critical or that feels personal.

It's safe, someone's like criticizing something that I've done.

I don't really care.

It's when they are criticizing who I am.

I think I find it hardest.

And so I wanted to understand why that was.

And I started doing some reading and some writing about this topic and understanding

the nature.

If we go back in our history as humans of rejection and what that used to mean when

I was a human, the idea of being like, despat, kicked out of my tribe and the threat that

that would put me under if I was removed from my tribe in this idea of rejection.

And really like, a lot of rejection, this is kind of what I came to the conclusion of,

when someone says something like that, it's almost like, for me, it feels like a threat

of rejection, a threat of being expelled from the, you know, from the tribe or whatever.

Obviously not.

Obviously, that is not the truth.

But deep within me somewhere that desire to fit in and be accepted by the tribe is still

there.

So having millions of people being able to give me feedback and some of them seemingly

rejecting me from the tribe or saying that I don't fit or they do whatever is difficult.

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