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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

Moment 119: How To Figure Out ANYTHING In Your Life: Marie Forleo

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Education, Business

4.517.8K Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2023

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

In this moment, entrepreneur and author of ‘Everything is Figureoutable’, Marie Forleo discusses her 3 rules for a Figureoutable mindset. The most important of these rules is her third rule, which says that if you don’t care enough to reach a dream or goal, that’s OK, and instead you should find another dream or goal. Too often in life we beat ourselves up for being unmotivated or lazy for not achieving certain targets. Actually, we should just admit that we don’t care enough about the goal, and it is just something we think we should want to achieve. Instead, Marie believes we should reexamine our priorities and understand the difference when we say we ‘can’t’ or ‘won’t’ do something, as 99 percent of the time when we say we ‘can’t ‘we mean we won’t or don’t want to. Listen to the full episode here - https://g2ul0.app.link/ebU0K9spWvb Marie: https://www.marieforleo.com https://www.instagram.com/marieforleo/?hl=en Watch the Episodes On Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/%20TheDiaryOfACEO/videos Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

In the book, you took about these three points of philosophy that...

0:07.3

Oh, the three rules.

0:08.5

The three rules, yeah, that underpin this figure-outable mindset.

0:12.0

Yes.

0:12.8

What are those?

0:13.8

So rule number one is that all problems or dreams are figure-outable.

0:19.3

Rule number two, if a problem or a dream isn't figure-outable, it's a law of nature, right?

0:25.3

So death, maybe taxes.

0:27.9

Rule number three.

0:29.3

You may not care enough to solve a particular dream or reach a particular goal, and that's

0:34.6

okay.

0:36.0

Find something that you do care deeply about and go back to rule number one.

0:40.8

And what that does is it creates a container, a container for us as human beings to be honest

0:47.3

about what we care enough about to go figure it out.

0:50.8

Because in my life, there hasn't been one thing yet that I have truly wanted to either

0:57.5

understand, achieve, transform.

1:00.1

Do you know what I have to sound different relationship with?

1:03.1

That when it was true in my heart, that I haven't been able to figure it out.

1:07.9

And if I don't want to figure something out, like I can get real at myself, like I don't

1:10.9

care enough about this to go figure it out right now.

1:14.3

That's super important.

1:15.3

Yes.

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