You were just talking about doing hard things.

So let's talk about sex.

Sex is a huge part of relationships.

And one of the really interesting things I want to talk to you about is, again, if I look

at my friendship group, my small friendship group of maybe six guys, right, my best friends,

I'd say three of them are currently having a really, really hard time as it relates to sex

with their partner.

For a variety of reasons, reason number one that I've heard, my partner doesn't like having

sex, we have sex once every three months.

Reason number two I've heard, my partner doesn't like the way that I have sex.

On those first two points, I'm horrified, surprised that so many people I speak to are

struggling in that department with sex.

And there's not the conversation around sex is either non-existent or poor influenced.

What's your take on sex and what's going on in the world?

I'm so glad you brought it up because I think that because of social media, there's this

image that everyone else is having sex and I'm not.

Like I feel like that's like a very big feeling that a lot of people have and all the stats

show that people are having less and less sex.

There are more and more sexless relationships and marriages every single year and it's

so much more common yet in our groups and online, everyone feels like, are they getting

some and they're getting some and they're getting some but I'm not.

And the truth is most people are not getting any and that's just, I don't have the stats

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