Of all the things you've learned from your good and bad relationships, if you were to

have...

If I said to you that, what is the single biggest killer of relationships?

What would you like to be?

I would say the biggest killer of relationships is being out of integrity with your authentic

power and abandoning yourself to create peace in the relationship.

Because if one person is doing that or two people are doing that, there's some type of

codependency, there's some type of wound on why we're doing that.

That's creating that.

So for me, the biggest killer is not healing.

That's the biggest killer.

Whatever wounds we have, be on the healing journey.

It's not going to happen overnight.

It's not like a moment.

It's a journey of healing.

I think the more people are willing to dive into their heart and their emotions and whatever

insecurities, wherever they feel triggered, that's where you need to lean into.

Because that trigger is going to come up in a relationship big time if you haven't healed

it.

So it's the emotional healing, I think, is one of the most powerful things.

It's funny, I interviewed a brain surgeon who done over a thousand brain surgeries and

studied the brain.

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