Mode & The Dark Dismissive Narcissist | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

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🗓️ 9 December 2024

⏱️ 79 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Mode about her abusive relationship with a dismissive abuser. What started as a relationship dream come true, eventually turned into a frog in the boiling pot story. Mode didn't even realize what was happening, as her friends needed to point it out to her. After the relationship ended, things devolved further as Mode became the receptacle for everything wrong in her ex's life. It's a story of dismissiveness, rants, negativity, dark clouds, post separation abuse, stalking, shrinking, losing yourself, anger, resentment, blame, infidelity, feeling unlovable, double standards, mediation, court, parenting, and custody. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:26.1	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Mode,
0:32.8	and Mode was in a relationship with a dismissive abuser.
0:36.7	It's a story of shrinking, put downs, negativity, infidelity, custody, and post-separation abuse.
0:46.3	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:07.9	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me me today we have Mode. How are you? I'm good. Thanks for having me.
1:18.0	Well, thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Mode is today, please do go to our
1:23.7	website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top of the page,
1:29.0	and there you can read all of our instructions, and please read them all, and either send us an email
1:33.6	at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com, or fill out our guest form and press the submit button,
1:39.5	and please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:42.9	And we do not have a content warning for this episode.
1:46.9	And today you're going to hear Mode's story.
1:49.7	And Mode was in a frog in the boiling pot kind of story with a dash of post-separation abuse
1:55.9	and custody issues that are still ongoing.
1:59.8	So now I'm just going to get out of my way and your way mode.
2:04.9	The floor is now yours.
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