Minisode Monday #76 | The Three Rings of Perception

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🗓️ 23 October 2017

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Minisode Monday, where we kick off the week with something quick and actionable -- to make you more magnetic and effective -- that you can implement right away. This time around, Eyes Wide Open: Overcoming Obstacles and Recognizing Opportunities in a World That Can't See Clearly author Isaac Lidsky returns (make sure to check out his full episode here) to talk about the three rings of perception -- how we view ourselves in the world, how the world views us, and how we view the way others view us. Let's get to it! The Cheat Sheet: According to Isaac Lidsky, there are three rings of perception. Ring One: Our perception of self. Ring Three: How we're perceived by others. Ring Two: Our perception of others' perception of us. It's important to remember that these are perceptions, and not necessarily reality. Here, Isaac shares what he does to gauge the accuracy of his perceptions. Want to put these into action for yourself? Make sure to download the Worksheet for Minisode Monday #76 | The Three Rings of Perception here! [Coming soon!] To learn more about social dynamics and productivity hacks, take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text AOC to 38470. Also be sure to check out our Social Capital Intensive here! Let us know about how you put today's Minisode Monday into practice! Tweet with @TheArtofCharm in your response or write to Jordan directly: jordan@theartofcharm.com (he actually reads everything)! Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/minisode-monday-76-three-rings-perception/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text AOC to 38470. We'll take you step by step to becoming better at making personal and professional connections, becoming a better networker, increasing your personal social capital and charisma. This is for both men and women! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey Jordan Harbinger here from the Art of Charm. Welcome to Miniso Monday. You're weekly shot of
0:04.9	personal development espresso. I got to lay off the coffee here. Happy to be here with the
0:09.6	kickin off the week with something quick and actionable that you can implement right away that
0:13.5	will make you more magnetic and effective. Today we're back with Isaac Lidsky who's on the show
0:18.3	recently discussing well the transition from being cited to unable to see frankly super interesting
0:26.0	brain science behind this and Isaac you had some really interesting concepts in the book
0:31.6	that I wanted to jive on namely the three rings of perception and I thought this is a great way
0:36.7	of looking at the world bad terrible pun not intended sorry about that but I liked what you had
0:42.7	on offer here and I'd love to share it with the AOC family as well. Sure my pleasure thanks for
0:47.3	the opportunity so you know in brief yeah just thinking about this notion of sort of a perception
0:53.9	who are we and what's individuals you know at our core what what defines us and you know in
0:58.8	thinking about that sort of more deeply it seems to me there's really kind of three rings to the
1:03.6	sort of a mental sort of circus of perception right so in in the first is our perception of
1:11.8	ourselves right ourselves image ourselves perception self-construct ego and what not and then
1:18.0	sort of in the third ring on the opposite side of the stage if you will you know is how we're viewed
1:23.2	how people view us the sort of barrage of cues we get from from society from those around us about
1:28.8	you know who we are what we should be like you know sort of those cues real or imagined by the way
1:35.3	and then kind of in the middle in the sort of second ring the largest by far is is this you know
1:40.2	this notion of our perception of others perception of ourselves this kind of doubly distorted view
1:48.6	how we imagine others thinking about and and sort of seeing us in our interactions and in my life
1:56.3	certainly I've found in sort of my eyes wide open sort of vision of of living of sort of being
2:01.5	accountable for for the reality you're creating for yourself it's really key sort of first and
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