Welcome guys and gals to the man talk show. I'm Connor Beatton, the host and founder of man talks.

Today we're going to talk about this single most attractive thing a man can do. And I'm going to

start off with talking about men and commitment. I need to address this because lately I've been

hearing a lot of women, not all of them, but a lot of women talk about and complain about how men are bad with commitment.

And I hear a lot of men talk about that too, about how they're bad with commitment.

And I disagree. I think that that is crap. I think it's horseshed. I think that men are not

bad with commitment. Men are bad at committing to the wrong things. That's the actual

problem. The problem isn't that they're bad at commitment. It's that they're bad at committing

to the right thing. So they end up committing to the wrong things. So I'm going to give this

an example for you. So when a man takes all of his commitment, all of his focus and his

effort and energy, and he says,

I'm going to commit to this relationship 100%. I'm going to give myself to this relationship.

And to be clear, this doesn't mean that men shouldn't commit and be faithful in a relationship,

in a monogamous relationship. I'm not saying that. But when a man says to himself, I'm going to

commit everything that I am as a man says to himself, I'm going to commit everything that I am

as a man to this relationship. What ends up happening is that he becomes a needy man. He becomes a very

needy man because he needs that relationship. He needs that person. He needs his partner to give him

validation. He needs his partner to validate his worth because what a man

has done, by the way, where a man puts his commitments, and I need you to hear this, where a man puts

his commitments is where he puts his worth. Now, this is incredibly important to know because if a man

puts all of his commitment of himself of his life of

his effort his energy his attention on his relationship what he is telling the world telling the

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