What is going on beautiful folks today? We're talking about how narcissistic people want you to be the one that reaches out to them after the breakup happens. After the huge, after a huge argument when they're giving you the silent treatment. When they just when they just, oh, I'm going to lose my mind. They just want you to want to be one of the reaches out to them. If you do here, my name is Lee Hammock.

I might diagnose Narcissus.

And welcome to another episode of the Narcissus Code.

Let's get it.

Let's Love it. keep trying to tell this to people narcissistic people narcissists like to play games right love it

even let it love to play games so when they love to play games that means it's always on their

mind to do stuff to try to antagonize you to try to irritate you to try to want up you to try to get

the power back whatever that looks like right a lot of

manipulative narcissistic people um want you to be the one that reached out to them after something

bad happens you know you notice you notice i said something bad because it doesn't always have to be a

breakup it can be a breakup but it could be an argument.

It could be after you discover something.

It could be after something big happens,

something little happens, like they give you the silent treatment.

They just cut off all forms of communication with you.

And then they just, they just be quiet.

They just disappear on you. They just ghost you when they're in the same house. They start stonewall with you. And then they just, they just be quiet. They just disappear on you.

They just ghost you when they're in the same house.

They start stonewalling you while y'all are together in the same household and whatnot.

They just start doing this type of stuff right here to antagonize you, to mess with you and things like that.

So in your mind, in the mind of whoever dealing with this narcissistic person, you might start to feel like you are the problem for some reason.

It's the most wonderful time.

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