You know, scrolling through the gram the other day, the gram, and I came across this post.

It was one of those reels or the video things, whatever.

It was just talking, I mean, we'll talk about it, but it was, they were highlighting just kind of those small micro

decisions and how they can either lead us closer to one another and kind of solidify our unity or

causes to drift apart.

And it's just simple things, right?

Like, when you walk in the door from work, am I, do I get off the couch and say, hi, how are you and give you a kiss?

When's the last time you've been on the couch when I, when I've walked out there, you're usually doing something productive.

Right. So for this episode, we're really hoping to try to show you or help you examine, you know, what are these decisions that I make without thinking?

How do they affect my marriage?

Could I be more active? Could I be more aware in some of the decisions that I'm making towards my spouse?

So we'll get to that and see you on the other side.

And this idea of micro decisions was a novel for me, right?

Because we go about our day and we're on autopilot or referring to our decisions that you make either their knee jerk

reactions or the things you do without even thinking about, right?

Right. They're just so ingrained in how you go about your day.

So in some sense, they're not even really micro decisions.

They're, because they're not, you're not deciding on the fly, but you've, you're just, you're in whatever habit and routine that you're used to.

Right.

And so I think what this does is you can, we're going to look at a bunch of different areas where these small decisions play out.

Yes.

And our hope is that you'll, you'll be able to recognize and kind of open your eyes, open your ears to what those small opportunities are.

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