What up guys, alright today I'm so freaking excited. I feel like I need to drumroll. Alright that's me banging my hands on the table because today guys I sit down with the epic woman and one of my close homies Mel Brickin Robbins. That's right, Mel Robbins is on today and when I say man, damn this one is a special one guys. She shares things that she's never ever admitted out loud in regards to her relationship and how her and her husband have 26 years were recently at the blink of actually waking up and you know no she's so open and so vulnerable and so honest about it. We go deep on about disrespect, toxic people, how you identify toxic behaviour and how to approach disrespect in your relationship. But here's the thing guys, most of all, she's very freaking candid and actually shares how she was the one that was a toxic person in their relationship. She actually calls herself the asshole in her relationship. As always, Mel does not disappoint. She shares some freaking hard pills to swallow. But, Homie's guys, I know that you don't want to miss this one because these are the nuggets that we really do need to hear to know when we're in a toxic relationship, but to also know if we're the toxic person. So guys, check this episode out, tag me, Mel, and let us know what really resonated with you in this episode. And guys, if this really did bring value value I asked you to share it tell your

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Today on Women of Impact, the fiery motivational speaker. It's real easy to point the finger. Best selling author. But the power is in looking in the mirror and taking responsibility for what you're going to do. And star of the Mel Robbins podcast. This is an embarrassing thing to admit. Mel Robbins tells us how to spot toxic relationships in our lives.

Dude, I think that that is so freaking strong,

it actually brings up that shit from childhood that gets stored in your body.

Let's go, Deep Girl!

Happy married for 26 years,

Mel shares the moment that nearly tore the couple apart.

Did you give him an ultimatum?

I did. Finally I said, here are my non-hagotra balls. Oh, we were gonna talk about this! Oh, man! The best way to get a new one is to get a new one. Mel Robbins in the whipping house! Listen! Girl, I absolutely love you. Welcome to Women in Vampant again. Thank you. Thank you. All right, today we're going to talk about disrespect.

Oh, okay.

And I want to talk to you something.

You did not.

But you speak so eloquently about how to identify

when someone's disrespect to you.

Okay. And then what to do?

Now here's the thing.

When it strangers disrespect to you,

I think it can somewhat be easier to identify and have your own back. But what happens when you're being disrespected in a partnership? I think a lot of us may either make excuses or they're just going through a hard time because we want the relationship to work so badly. So let's start by talking about what are the signs that you've noticed in a relationship where you have personally tried to say, hey, I've noticed you're crossing the line here. What is that sign? And then how do you handle it? That is a great question. So you're talking about in my relationship with Chris? Yes. OK. You know, what's interesting about this as it relates to Chris is I feel like he probably has more instances where I am disrespecting him. Because I tend to be more, I'm just more of everything.

I'm the whirlwind, I'm the one with ADHD,

I'm the creative force, I'm the tornado through the house,

and my husband is a very centered, very pulled back,

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