Me and the Mrs. on Marriage and Life | TRICIA MICHLER
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9.1K Ratings
🗓️ 14 January 2020
⏱️ 104 minutes
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Summary
Back by popular demand, my favorite guest joins me again on the podcast. And, in case you don’t know who that it, it’s my wife. Look, the reality is that all the guests that I have had on have offered some tremendous insight and value but my thought is that if you can’t get things right with your wife, nothing else really matters that much.
Today, we talk about the struggles we’ve had in our marriage, why she wants me to lead our family, what women look for in men, the “patriarchy,” kissing through the beard, getting your wife on board with your self-development journey, and a whole lot more.
SHOW HIGHLIGHT
- Think before you speak
- Leading the family
- Fulfilling family roles
- Keeping the other in-check
- Internal dialogue
- Taking stock
- Letting your guard down
- Working things out
- Learning new tools
- Being her advocate
- Taking your last name
- Explaining the Iron Council
- What it means to be a woman
- Being the protector
- Maintaining a healthy balance
- Aspects of a good woman
- Advice for couples
- How you should treat a woman
TRICIA MICHLER
As I mentioned before, my guest today is my wife, Tricia Michler. We’ve been together for 17 years now and married for 15. We’ve had our ups and downs and have gone through a lot together and, after our previous episodes together (and the positive response), I figured it was time to bring her back on again.
She’s my beautiful wife, mother to our four children, a stay-at-home mom/homemaker, and someone who adds a lot of love, laughter, and spontaneity to my life. Frankly, I’m not sure how I would do life without her in it.
LEGACY
Gents, we’ve talked a little about children in this episode and I hope you can see how important ours are to us. If you have children, I know you feel the same way about yours.
But more and more, it seems the world is stacked against our children – specifically our young men. And, a couple of years ago, I wanted to throw my hat in the ring and do something about that.
That is why we created the Legacy Experience – a father/son event being held June 11-14, 2020. The experience is designed to push you and your son physically, mentally, and emotionally and help forge and foster the bond between you and him. Essentially, we created this experience to help you as his father usher him into manhood.
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| 0:00.0 | Back by popular demand, my favorite guest joins me again on the podcast and in case you don't know who that is, it is my wife, Trisha McClure. |
| 0:08.0 | Look, the reality is that all the guests that I've had on have offered some tremendous insight and value, but my thought is that if you can't get things right with your wife, nothing else really matters that much. |
| 0:20.0 | Today we talk about the struggles we've had in our marriage, why she wants me to lead our family, what women look for and men, the patriarchy, kissing through the beard, getting your wife on board with your self development journey and a whole lot more. |
| 0:34.0 | When you're a man of action, you live life to the fullest, embrace your fears, and boldly charge your own path. When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. You are not easily deterred, defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. This is your life, this is who you are, this is who you will become. |
| 0:53.0 | At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man. |
| 0:59.0 | Gentlemen, what is going on today? My name is Ryan McClure, and I am the host and the founder of the podcast and the movement that is Order of Man. |
| 1:06.0 | Here we are in 2020. I hope that your year is starting off as well as mine has. It's shaping up to be a very productive and busy and profitable and fulfilling year, and again, I hope it is for you as well. |
| 1:19.0 | It's really my goal in this podcast to give you the tools and conversations and resources and guidance and direction and introductions. |
| 1:26.0 | Everything that you might need to make sure that that is the case, that 2020 is your breakout year, or you continue to grow as much as you have over the past four or five years or longer. |
| 1:36.0 | To that end, we are bringing on some great guests. I have a very powerful lineup of guests who are joining us and believe in what we are doing as far as reclaiming and restoring masculinity. |
| 1:47.0 | I want to thank you for being on this path and also for sharing. It is really important that you share, because there are men that you know, whether it is your father or brother or associates or colleagues, neighbors that really need the message that we are sharing and the information that we have. |
| 2:02.0 | Of course, the information from the guests that it bring on. We are going to get into this conversation here in just a very quick minute because it is one of my favorite conversations. |
| 2:11.0 | A lot of you know why, because my wife is joining me again. We have a good time when we do these things. |
| 2:15.0 | But first, I want to introduce you to my friend's origin. Over the weekend, my friend Pete Roberts with origin had made a video that he was moving some stuff to a new factory and some equipment. |
| 2:28.0 | And I reached out to him and I said, hey, man, I can help. I've got a truck and I've got a healthy back. |
| 2:32.0 | So I went over and helped to some degree. I kind of felt like maybe I got more on the way than actually helped. |
| 2:37.0 | But I went over there and they were moving all of their boot making equipment to their new factory. They bought an old Coca-Cola plant and that is becoming their new factory. |
| 2:47.0 | And so I got to see it. I got to move some of that equipment over and feel it and move it around. And I got to tell you this operation is absolutely incredible. |
| 2:55.0 | And the boots that they make with all of that equipment, they're phenomenal. And I think they're back running up this week because they took the weekend to get everything settled in. |
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| 3:21.0 | Again, origin main.com and then use the code order at checkout. All right, guys. As I mentioned before, my guest today is my wife, Trisha, Mickler. We've been together for 17 years now and married for 15. |
| 3:36.0 | We've had our ups and downs and we've shared a lot about that. We've gone through a lot together and after our previous episodes together and the positive response that we received, I figured it was time to bring her back on again. |
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