Matthew Hussey: “I Wish I Knew THIS When I Was Single” - How To HEAL The #1 Pattern BLOCKING LOVE

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Lewis Howes

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🗓️ 20 March 2024

⏱️ 114 minutes

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Today, we're excited to chat with Matthew Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and renowned relationship coach. With over half a billion views on his YouTube channel and a top-rated podcast, Matthew's practical advice on love and confidence has impacted millions worldwide. In this conversation we’ll dive into the secrets of all successful relationships. In this episode Matthew shares his invaluable insights on the key elements that constitute successful relationships. He emphasizes the importance of giving up certain types of attention to attract what you truly need, the distinction between impressing and connecting, and the crucial role of authenticity in forming genuine connections.

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0:00.0	Today we're excited to chat with Matthew Hussey, a New York Times best-selling
0:04.4	author, speaker, and renowned relationship coach. With over half a billion
0:08.8	views on his YouTube channel and a top-rated podcast, Matthew's practical advice on love and confidence has impacted millions worldwide.
0:18.0	In this conversation, we'll dive deep into the secrets of all successful relationships.
0:24.0	Now let's dive in.
0:26.3	At a certain point, it becomes about deciding what we really want.
0:29.8	What's the thing I'm trying to get?
0:31.5	Am I trying to serve my ego in love or am I trying to serve my soul?
0:36.1	One of the most sought after dating and relationship experts in the world,
0:40.2	the New York Times best-selling author, creator of the number one relationship advice,
0:44.4	YouTube channels, and over 382 million channel views, the Hart's Doctor himself,
0:51.4	Matthew Hussey.
0:53.0	What is a woman truly saying if they say,
0:56.0	I don't like nice guys?
0:58.0	They're saying that my nervous system does not produce the effect that I call love around people who do not send it into some kind of fight or flight response.
1:11.3	This is not just a female pattern, this is a people pattern. Why is it
1:15.5	that we respond to people who treat us poorly? By changing these patterns and
1:22.0	healing these wounds, you will find yourself in a place
1:25.8	where better and better relationships are available to you because people will start to
1:30.3	see you.
1:31.3	You'll start to attract a different quality of person.
1:34.0	If you could give your 18 year old self three pieces of advice about love that you wish you would have known then that you know now, what would those three things be?
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