MATT408 - Three Steps For Fixing Screwed Up Relationships
The Ten Minute Bible Hour Podcast
Matt Whitman
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🗓️ 23 June 2021
⏱️ 9 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, my friends. We're talking about Matthew 18, not just in general. We're talking about that |
| 0:04.4 | Matthew 18 versus 15 through 17. The part that talks about what you're supposed to do when a |
| 0:09.3 | relationship with somebody gets busted up, somebody sins against somebody else. You're trying to |
| 0:13.7 | deal with things in another person's life within the church within the family of faith that is |
| 0:19.3 | screwy, destructive, even sinful. And it's not as simple as just follow these three steps because |
| 0:25.2 | all three of those steps have pretty big implications, but also maybe it is just as simple as follow |
| 0:30.5 | these three steps. Whatever the case, let's pick up where we left off yesterday and keep working |
| 0:34.3 | it through. So behind each of these overt steps that Jesus is putting in place to govern conflict |
| 0:46.4 | resolution and even overt sinful behavior in the community of faith, behind each of these there's |
| 0:51.5 | the implicit assumption of humility on the part of the individual implicit assumption number one is |
| 0:57.2 | if somebody sins against you, you don't actually have to go and work that out. You could just take |
| 1:01.2 | it and forgive them and move on and chalk it up to a bad day and that's that implicit assumption |
| 1:05.7 | number two is that both parties want to get it right and implicit assumption number three is at |
| 1:10.8 | those two or three witnesses will just tell the truth and everyone will be loyal to whatever the |
| 1:16.0 | truth is and that the moral right way healing way to respond to whatever it is that went down will |
| 1:21.8 | be evident once the facts are in place, which takes us to step three in verse 17. If they still |
| 1:28.4 | refuse to listen, tell it to the church. And if they refuse to listen, even to the church, |
| 1:31.7 | treat him as you would have pagan or a tax collector. Well, yikes, that ends rough. We'll get to that |
| 1:36.7 | in a minute. So now the implicit assumption behind the text is no, we got a belligerent here. |
| 1:44.5 | This person is not bought into the values of the kingdom. This person does not care about the |
| 1:49.8 | factual testimony of other people who saw what went down. They don't care about the correction |
| 1:55.8 | of other brothers and sisters. They're running their own equation here. They're doing their own |
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