The starting point for this is to stop valuing someone based on how we feel about them

and start valuing them based on how they make us feel. be able. One of the most common things that happens to us in early dating is we can find ourselves getting over-invested and too obsessed with this person we have started seeing, especially if we find them attractive, especially if they like us back,

all of a sudden our mind explodes with the possibilities of what this could become.

All of this makes it particularly hurtful and anxiety-inducing

when the person we feel this way about starts going cold after things were going so well.

In this video, I'm going to give you some principles

for what you can do if you feel you've become over-invested

to the point of overthinking and anxiety and two text messages you can send if someone has

gone cold to re-engage. engage.

Now, before I get into the content of this video, I want to ask you something a little unique today. I want you to think of a question that if I was sat beside you right now you would be dying to ask me for your love life.

What dating question would you ask me about your current situation if you could ask me anything in the world?

Hold that in your mind because at the end of this video, believe it or not,

I am going to give you a way that you can actually ask me that question,

and I will give you a personalized answer designed just for you.

So I want to talk about the scenario that inspired this video. One of my love life members came to me and asked a question about a guy that she had been seeing

for about three to four weeks and then he went on a trip with his kids for about two

weeks.

Now, things have been going well,

the communication had been good,

she was having a great time with him,

but once he left, she sparsely heard from him.

She got a couple of messages when he sent some pictures of the trip on a Saturday,

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