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🗓️ 24 June 2025
⏱️ 57 minutes
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0:00.0 | In any legitimate negotiation, the more you assert your position, no matter how true and genuine it is, the more the other person locks up. |
0:13.5 | Secret to gaining the upper hand in a negotiation is... |
0:18.0 | What do we need to know about reading people people whether they're lying to us or not? |
0:23.6 | Well, there's different kinds of lies. There's a predatory lie where they're trying to take |
0:26.7 | advantage of you. And there's a defensive lie where they're just trying to protect themselves. |
0:30.3 | Pick out the difference. And then he's negotiated with terrorists, defuse kidnappings, |
0:36.0 | and now former FBI hostage negotiator Chris V, is sharing how the same tactics that helped him save lives can help you win deals, build trust, and master high-stakes moments. |
0:46.3 | I'm a bank robber, and you're a negotiator, and you've got to talk me out. |
0:50.1 | Want to play? |
0:51.1 | Yeah, I would actually love this. |
0:53.0 | We'll simulate a phone conversation. |
0:54.6 | Okay. |
0:55.2 | Ring ring. |
0:56.4 | I need a car in 60 seconds where she dies. |
0:59.0 | Oh, wait. |
1:00.2 | Okay. |
1:00.7 | You got 50 seconds to get me a car, and I kill the hostage if you don't. |
1:07.3 | So, Chris, I would love to know if there was a signature moment in your life or a series of events |
1:15.4 | or maybe the way you're wired. As you look back, what maybe led you or drove you to become |
1:25.9 | one of the best negotiators out there? |
1:28.6 | Well, and I think it would be fair. |
1:30.4 | I consider myself maybe the best negotiation coach out there. |
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