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Calm Parenting Podcast

Massive Meltdowns: 5 Steps To Calm Kids Who Blame & Feel Shame #479

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Plans get changed, your child gets disappointed or doesn’t get his way. This turns into a nuclear meltdown with defiance and disrespect. But there is a solution. Do you know WHY your kids sometimes go scorched earth? How can you de-escalate everyday situations without threatening consequences or talking too “calmly” to your kids? Kirk gives you five specific action steps and a creative script to use. 


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So Casey and his wife were visiting friends this past weekend. They saw a cozy earth catalog on their

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table and he said, wait, you guys know cozy earth? And they said, yeah, all our bedding has cozy

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earth bamboo sheets. We're hooked. Softest bedding, best sleep we've ever had. So Casey asked,

0:17.7

does your guest bed have cozy earth sheets? Because we'll visit you more often if it does.

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And of course, he liked being the hero, adding, if you go to cozyearth.com slash calm and use

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code calm, you'll get 40% off.

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Look, once you try cozy earth pajamas or casual wear or sheets or towels, you'll find, like

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many families, thatzy Earth isn't a

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product. It becomes a lifestyle. You expect to feel unbelievably relaxed and comfortable day and night

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and you won't settle for less. Cozy Earth is a sanctuary amidst your hectic life. Visit CozyEarth.com

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slash calm. Use code Calm for 40% off, bestselling sheets, towels, pajamas, and more. That's CozyEarth.com

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slash calm with code calm for 40% off. So most of us have kids who give up when learning gets hard. And that's why I encourage

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you to check out Iexel.com slash Kirk. I Excel is an online learning program that can be used by any student

1:22.0

from K to 12, whether they are struggling in a particular subject or homeschooling.

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Kids love IxL's positive feedback awards and educational games.

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IXL encourages kids to find joy in learning through video tutorials that guide your child in the way your child learns best.

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Each activity on IXL helps your child in the way your child learns best. Each activity on I-XL helps your child build up

1:47.3

the determination to push through challenges and feel a tangible sense of accomplishment from learning.

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And I-XL's extensive content library empowers kids to explore their interests and take charge of their learning journey.

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Visit Ixl.com slash Kirk to get the most effective learning program at the best price.

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