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You know, every garden needs water to really make the plants grow and your

marriage needs a lot of maintenance and a lot of good stuff to be healthy. When

you work to cultivate your relationship, the chances of success are much

greater, just like that garden that you tend to. I'm John Fuller in the studio

with Dr. Greg Smalley and his wife Aaron and they have years of counseling

couples. They always do a great job of sharing from their own journeys and

Greg, let's just kick off with a short example from you about maybe a small

act of love that perhaps has helped you cultivate your relationship with Aaron.

Yeah, I love it when Aaron expresses gratitude for something that I've done.

Disassembly. Hey, notice that you had the trash out this morning on time. I did

notice that you had the trash out this morning.

Checking. But when she when she does, I love that. But also also when she just

brings little gifts. I'm not a big gift person, but like today before our

recording session here, she called and said, Hey, I'm pulling through Starbucks.

Can I get you anything? And just that that simple little, you know, just,

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