This is the Authentic Sex Podcast, real-life conversations about sex, pleasure and relationships.

I'm your host, Juliet Allen. magical anal sex is it actually a thing i get asked a lot about anal sex with my coaching clients. Often the questions that are asked are

how can I make it more comfortable? How can I bring up the topic with my partner? How can I explore

this and make it the best experience possible? So I have a lot of people come to me who have

never experienced it and who want the basics and others who have experienced it and perhaps

want to explore more but don't know how they can be having a better experience. So if you are

either of those today is for you, I'm going to talk a

little bit about my own personal experience with anal sex and then I'm going to go on to

my top tips for great magical anal sex. So we're going to get really practical today.

So I'm talking about this topic because it is actually one of my favorite topics.

I've been lucky enough to experience some really amazing anal sex experiences. So I am one of those women who

absolutely loves it and I've just had some ecstatic, orgasmic experiences when I'm enjoying it.

So I started experimenting with anal sex in my very first relationship when I was 18 with my

first love.

And it actually wasn't a great experience.

I remember him wanting to do it, me saying,

okay, let's try. And basically he just got his penis and stuck it inside me. And it was really, really painful. Like even talking about it now, I can feel that pain. And I instantly retracted and said, I hated it and I

never want to do that again. So that was my first experience of anal. I then went on to different

relationships and different lovers. And with one particular relationship, we had some really amazing anal sex experiences.

Now, the difference between that, the beginning of enjoying it and the first experience was

when I began to enjoy anal, I was experiencing it with somebody who made me feel really,

really comfortable sexually and somebody who was really present with me. And I guess I was a little

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