Welcome to Love Your Life with Law of Attraction.

I'm your host Jennifer Bailey, and this podcast is designed to inspire, uplift, and

add more joy to your life.

Today, we're going to talk about what focusing on the problem has to do with digging a hole.

This episode is perfect for anyone who wants to learn the phrase I jotted down in a notebook

from an Abraham workshop a year ago that is still resonating.

What's really happening when your friend calls to complain about her marriage? The flawed premise at work when you encourage someone to talk about

their problems. I'm going to share what I've realized is considered normal about so many conversations we're having

that I've only realized since my obsession with all things law of attraction.

I'll talk about the two reasons you don't want to be a sounding board for problems and complaints,

and what you should skip next time someone comes to you

with a grievance or worry. What you focus on grows. I created 31 days of L.O.A. The Abundance

series to help you focus on and grow abundance in your life. To find out more,

go to Jennifer 365.com forward slash abundance. And now on to the episode.

Hello, and Hello and welcome to Love Your Life.

About a year ago, I had an amazing opportunity to attend an Abraham workshop in Dallas.

The entire experience was wonderfully expansive. I heard so much wisdom that resonated to my core. Today's episode is about one wise gym from that day that has really stuck with me.

Here's what I jotted in my notebook that day from Abraham in response to the woman in the

hot seat. Abraham said, there's no point in digging a great big deep hole and then helping someone out of it.

Don't dig a hole to begin with. Oh, did that resonate? Because I realized in that moment

how often I had done just that with friends and family, even clients pre-Elloa. While well-intentioned,

I now understood this hole digging from a very different perspective.

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