loyalty (rerun)
Hard Feelings with Jennette McCurdy
Lemonada Media
4.6 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 18 March 2024
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
in this episode i delve into loyalty and, more specifically, what an issue i think it presents in certain relationships. the key relationship that comes to mind for me is the one with my “dad”. to understand why i put “dad” in quotes, you’re gonna have to listen to the episode. mormon punch recipe: 1 part sprite, 1 part rainbow sherbet, 1 dollop of whipped cream, ice to taste.
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| 0:00.0 | Lemonnotta. |
| 0:05.0 | So I am thinking about loyalty and more specifically how very deeply damaging I think it is. Yeah, You know what loyalty is? |
| 0:35.0 | what loyalty is. |
| 0:37.0 | loyalty says, hey, because we have history, we need a present and a future. |
| 0:44.1 | Mm. |
| 0:46.8 | No, I think depending on our history, that tells me |
| 0:53.0 | whether we can have a present and or a future. |
| 0:58.7 | Sometimes the history is such that |
| 1:00.6 | you need to fucking get out of there, you need to get out of there you need to get out of that relationship and I don't |
| 1:05.1 | care who it's with friends family doesn't matter God this is so such a |
| 1:11.8 | frustrating area for me. I am thinking of two specific family |
| 1:15.9 | members that I have gone no contact with. And it was very difficult for me to |
| 1:22.3 | make the decision to go no contact because of the societal |
| 1:26.5 | messaging we have around loyalty. |
| 1:29.4 | With friends, yes, and really loyalty is harped on when it comes to family. |
| 1:35.0 | But you only have one mom or you only have one dad or, you know, |
| 1:39.0 | but she's your grandma or we, you got, you can't be selfish. selfish yeah maybe you do only have one mother maybe |
| 1:44.4 | she fucking failed you yeah you do only have one dad maybe he sexually abused you |
| 1:50.7 | I'm okay with being selfish I would rather be selfish than hurting all the fucking time. |
| 1:56.0 | I would rather be selfish and protecting myself than harming myself by engaging in this relationship with this person. |
| 2:05.0 | I'm of the mindset that if a relationship isn't serving you, |
| 2:11.4 | you should leave. You deserve you owe it to yourself to leave. |
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