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So Stacy posted a blog on her Facebook page about Valentine's Day.

And, you know, it was a win-some,

you know, hey fellas, here's a couple thoughts, hey gals, here's a couple thoughts, I mean just a very kind,

you know, light, but insightful blog, I thought.

And some of the feedback, I mean people just bam immediately responded and one

guy responds you know loving a woman on Valentine's Day what about loving a man

hey what's with that how come you're not thinking about woman on Valentine's Day, what about loving a man?

Hey, what's with that?

How come you're not thinking about ways to show us appreciation?

I was pretty shocked.

Hmm.

Not just, I shouldn't be shocked by sin, but what I was shocked by was the lack of self-perception of, do you realize

one, you're embarrassing yourself publicly sir as you post this everyone who's reading this is going

Gatsuk you know whoa? But even more I just wanted to say wow like like where does a relationship

what is relating well fit into your worldview? I mean you're about truth and

you're about setting Stacy straight and you're about I don't

know gender equivalency or something you know fair's fair I don't even know what the

motive was but but I just want to pause and go do you realize that the way you are

relating is doing damage I mean it's embarrassing to you it's embarrassing to the male part of the species

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