Love – is it Real or is it Fake?

Zen Pop

Todd and Cathy Adams

Society & Culture, Arts, Tv & Film

4.9 • 637 Ratings

🗓️ 5 February 2013

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Cathy and Todd talk REAL love vs SPIDER love (taken from Martha Beck’s book, Steering by Starlight) – do you love authentically or do you “make” people love you by controlling their behavior OR altering your behavior so you don’t “bother” them? REAL love is about sharing your true self and setting the ones you love free so they can be their true selves. They also discuss if it’s wise to talk to our kids like “little adults” – should we explain, or do we just set a limit (or do we do both)?

Transcript

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0:00.0	Hello, my name is Todd Adams.
0:09.2	This is Kathy Adams.
0:10.2	Welcome back Zen Parenting Radio, brought to you by helping handsmaid services.
0:14.5	The owner of the company, her name is Gosha.
0:16.2	And it's her birthday today.
0:17.6	It is.
0:18.1	We're taping this on a Sunday, even though it's going up on a Tuesday.
0:21.0	It's on Sunday. It's Saturday. It is Saturday We're taping this on a Sunday, even though it's going up on a Tuesday. It's not Sunday.
0:21.7	It's Saturday.
0:23.2	It is Saturday. Nice.
0:23.9	I know.
0:24.3	I love Saturdays.
0:25.4	I know.
0:25.6	It's a good day.
0:26.1	The reason it feels like a Sunday is because you're leaving.
0:29.5	What do you mean I'm leaving?
0:30.4	You're going on an overnight.
0:31.6	Yes. So I'm kind of like, you know. So Sundays, you feel like you're on more than you're on a Saturday? Well, it's just, you know, it's not as much fun when you're when you're not around.
0:38.9	Oh, that's nice.
0:39.9	So anyways, Helping Hands Made Services.
0:41.9	It's your birthday or her birthday.
0:43.2	Happy birthday, Gosha.
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