Do you think you're good at grieving?

Can we talk about something else?

Are you serious?

Yeah, I'm just curious like I was thinking we're gonna talk about this a little bit today.

I feel like you already know the answer. You wouldn't

ask me. Instead of grieving, what do you think you do? I deny and withdraw

and avoid. I don't think I'm very good at it either. I think I just move I keep moving and

doing instead of sitting and I don't I don't think we know how to grieve sometimes. Welcome to family life today where...

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Dave and Ann Wilson. You can find us at family life today.com. This is family life

today. No, I think that's a great question.

Well, I think that's a great question.

Well, I think grieving when I hear the word, it's like, let's do it and let's do it quick, and let's get back to life.

It's like, I don't want to live there.

Yeah. And that's terrible. That is not grieving, and that's not healthy.

But that's how most of us live myself included.

Yes.

We're talking with Sarah Hagerti today.

Welcome to Family Life.

Glad that you're with us because we're going to talk about this as we've been

talking about your book a little bit and you hit grieving in your book the gift of

limitations finding beauty in your boundaries.

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