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Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening

Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places with Venus Castleberg • X68

Mind Love™ • Consciousness, Spirituality, and Science for Awakening

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mindfulness, Inspirational, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Consciousness, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual Growth, Awakening, Mental Health

4.9906 Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2021

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

We will learn:

  • How your past can help you heal. 
  • How to let go of rightness in a relationship. 
  • The 5 Elements of Intimacy.

Are you ready for a serious relationship but just can’t seem to find the right one? Or maybe you keep committing only to realize you keep ending up with the same issues. And you’re starting to think that maybe the perfect person for you just doesn’t exist.

But maybe you’re just looking for love in the wrong places.

When you find your own guiding star, then you can find someone else who is at least headed in the same direction.

Our guest is Venus Castleberg. Venus is on a mission to help others to break free from the endless cycle for love – the kind that is based on hopes, dreams, and utopian ideals. 

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love Premium, episode

0:02.0

episode is all about looking for love in all the wrong places.

0:07.0

And of course, how to stop doing that shit?

0:09.0

I think a lot of us actually try to prove that we're right so that we don't see how wrong we are.

0:16.0

Because we're constantly in judgment of ourselves. We just project and this is great for every relationship to be aware of is like we will project what's going on with ourselves out on other people.

0:29.0

So if you're judging yourself that you're not making money, let's say, we'll just use a general thing.

0:36.6

Then you'll probably be judging your partner that they're not making enough money.

0:40.8

You'll project that out and be like, you're not making enough money, but if you actually

0:45.3

look at it, it's actually you that you believe isn't making enough money right now.

0:50.6

We'll do that, like, project out and then try to prove that we're right just so that we don't see how wrong we think we are.

0:58.0

Are you really ready for a serious relationship, but you just can't seem to find the right one?

1:08.0

Or maybe you keep committing, only to realize that you keep ending up with the same issues.

1:13.4

And you're starting to think that maybe the perfect person for you just doesn't exist.

1:18.0

But maybe you're just looking for love in the wrong places.

1:23.0

I look back at my dating history and it is not necessarily a lineup I'm proud of.

1:29.0

My catalogue of men ranged from a rampant cheater to a guy who asked me out when I was drunk and I literally

1:36.1

didn't know I had a boyfriend for two and a half weeks.

1:39.2

To a guy that liked looking in the mirror more than I did, to a guy that I dated because I liked his friends, and an actual

1:46.4

felon who was secretly robbing houses after I went to sleep.

1:50.4

I know, winners.

1:52.3

I know like a bachelorette casting agent listening but if so I really think the

1:56.6

spectrum of my exes would lead to the most dramatic season ever so hit me up and

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