Living Outside the Binary, Ending Relationships in COVID and BDSM Play

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 14 July 2020

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Happy International Non-binary People's Day! In this episode, Emily talks to the charming non-binary actor Vico Ortiz about how they keep dating interesting during COVID. Vico’s gone to great lengths to keep themselves busy and satisfied while stuck at home so if you’re missing human connection, this one’s for you. They also discuss the difference between gender and sexuality, what to do if you get someone’s pronouns wrong and healthy ways to make time for yourself. Later in the show, Emily helps a caller find perspective on his long-term relationship. Are you wondering if it’s time to end things? Tune in to learn the communication tools you need to figure it out. Plus, how to find community if you’re dipping your toes into BDSM. For more information about Vico Ortiz, visit: www.imdb.me/vico-ortiz For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	A bratty boy with a femdom.
0:09.2	That dynamic really gets me because in a way I have a lot of top energy,
0:13.6	but it really gets me off when someone tells me what to do.
0:16.4	I've been contemplating ending a relationship or I don't know what my next move is.
0:24.5	BDSM bondage discipline, St. Omaschism, you know, just could even mean handcuffs and blindfolds.
0:47.3	Vika Ortiz is a non-binary, Puerto Rican actor, drag king plays a character
0:52.2	as the straight whisper on these Thames, which is a super hot web series on YouTube right now.
0:57.9	It won awards, top trans creatives, and stories to watch in 2019.
1:02.1	So that's these Thames. Hello, Vika. Welcome to the show.
1:04.8	Hello, hello, Emily. Thank you so much for having me.
1:08.6	Yes, of course. I'm so glad you're here to the rescue.
1:12.3	We really, we have a lot to cover.
1:14.4	So, thank you for doing this.
1:16.0	I, when you said the whole like four months without sex,
1:18.2	like, that really, that really hit me.
1:20.7	Right? It's been a whole thing, like tell me about because you are legendary now.
1:24.9	So my producer, Marie, so I was like, we got to have Vika lot because Vika has all these stories
1:29.8	and has successfully been meeting people.
1:32.6	Oh, I mean, I guess like I sort of successfully in a way, like I've definitely been out and about.
1:39.7	I wasn't planning to be honest. I pre-COVID, I love meeting people in person.
1:44.9	I'm very, I'm always going out to an event.
1:47.1	I'm always at an event performing as a drag king.
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