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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Little Happier: This Mother Knew Exactly What Career Advice to Give

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Lemonada Media

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.713.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 March 2019

⏱️ 4 minutes

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Summary

I’m often wracked by indecision when I’m asked to give advice or take action. I love this example of a mother who knew exactly what career advice to give her daughter. Get in touch on Instagram: @GretchenRubin & @LizCraft Links and notes related to this episode can be found in the latest post here: https://gretchenrubin.com/podcasts/ Get the podcast show notes by email every week here: http://gretchenrubin.com/#newsletter If you pre-ordered Gretchen’s new book Outer Order, Inner Calm, get your preorder bonuses here: http://outerorderinnercalmbook.com To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

I'm Gretchen Rubin and this is a little happier.

0:03.6

It can be hard to make big decisions.

0:06.3

It can be hard to know what to do.

0:08.4

And if someone is asking you for your advice,

0:11.3

it can be hard to know what to say.

0:13.6

I'm often caught between the pros and the cons.

0:16.6

I see the advantages and disadvantages of both sides

0:19.1

and I can't figure out which way to go.

0:21.7

I've developed a few responses that helped me

0:24.0

when I can't decide.

0:25.3

Sometimes I can remind myself,

0:27.2

there's no wrong choice here.

0:29.3

Sometimes both decisions can be right.

0:32.5

Another is to tell myself, choose the bigger life.

0:35.9

That often makes a decision far clearer for me,

0:38.4

like when we were trying to decide as a family,

0:40.6

whether to get a dog.

0:42.5

Spoiler alert, we did get a dog

0:43.8

and I'm very happy that we did.

0:45.2

We chose the bigger life for us.

0:48.1

This kind of problem often comes up for me as a parent.

0:51.1

I need to decide how to handle a situation

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