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Success Story with Scott D. Clary

Lessons - The Things You Want But Won't Ask For (Scott)

Success Story with Scott D. Clary

Success Story Media

How To, Business, Education, Self-improvement

4.6326 Ratings

🗓️ 21 August 2025

⏱️ ? minutes

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Summary

➡️ Start Here: https://newsletter.scottdclary.com ➡️ Like The Podcast? Subscribe Here: https://youtube.com/c/scottdclary ➡️ If you like more content like this, you'll love my podcast 10 Minute Mindset https://10minmindset.org/ In this "Lessons" episode, we're talking about the things you want but won't ask for. You know - that raise you've deserved for two years, the help you need but won't request, the boundary with your mother you keep rehearsing in the shower. If you've been practicing conversations that never happen, settling for less than you want, or assuming everyone will say no before you even ask, this one's for you. I'll show you why your brain gets addicted to wanting instead of having, why people say yes 71% more often than you think they will, and the exact eight-second script that gets you what you want instead of what you'll settle for. ➡️ Connect With Me https://instagram.com/scottdclary / https://twitter.com/scottdclary

Transcript

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0:00.0

In today's lessons episode, we're going to talk about ending and exiting things that aren't

0:04.9

serving you anymore. And why your inability to do that is draining your energy and basically

0:10.0

wasting your life. You know, those expired relationships that you're still keeping up with,

0:14.6

the job that you should have let two years ago, the girlfriend or the boyfriend and you know

0:19.1

that it's not working out, the meeting that should

0:21.3

have ended 37 minutes ago but didn't. People have a really hard time ending things. And if you're

0:26.4

carrying around things that ran their course hours or even years ago, you're maintaining just

0:31.9

friendships out of guilt, you're lying awake thinking about conversations that you should be having

0:37.3

with that special person, but you're not.

0:39.4

This podcast is for you.

0:40.8

I'm going to show you why your brain literally can't let go of unfinished business.

0:44.9

So why you need to end stuff, why the way you end things is the only part that people actually remember,

0:51.7

which is why it's so important to do well in the exact five

0:55.2

sentence formula for ending anything with grace instead of ghosting like a coward.

1:05.3

Let's talk about that conversation that you practice in the shower every single morning,

1:10.2

the one where you go over

1:11.2

exactly what you want, a raise, more sex, help with the kids, space from your mother, a promotion,

1:17.4

quieter neighbors, Friday afternoons off, your money back, an apology, more affection, less

1:22.4

criticism, time to yourself, you know exactly what you want, and you know exactly who could

1:27.2

give it to you. And you also know exactly what you want and you know exactly who could give it to you.

1:28.0

And you also know exactly what words would get it. I need a $20,000 raise. I want to have sex

1:34.8

twice a week. I need you to handle bedtime on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Mom, I need you to call

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