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Modern Love

Left to Be Found

Modern Love

The New York Times

Love, New York Times, Nytimes, Essay, Loss, Storytelling, Society & Culture, Redemption, Nyt

4.39K Ratings

🗓️ 29 June 2022

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Yvonne Liu knew from a young age that she was adopted, but she didn’t know the details. All she knew was that she had been left by her birth mother in a busy stairwell in Hong Kong. It wasn’t until she was 30, on the night before a critical surgery, that she was given a handwritten note in Chinese that transformed her understanding of where she had come from. Meanwhile, Lynn Domina had never envisioned herself as a mother — until she met Amy, a spunky 8-year-old who was obsessed with “Harry Potter.” On today’s episode, we hear from two women about their adoption journeys and the emotions and discoveries they’ve experienced along the way.

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0:00.0

Love now and...

0:04.0

You're falling love, man.

0:05.0

It's not my love.

0:06.0

It's stronger than anything.

0:08.0

I feel the love.

0:09.0

And I love you more than anything.

0:12.0

You're too much.

0:14.0

From the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin.

0:17.0

This is Modern Love.

0:21.0

On today's show, we've got two stories about adoption.

0:25.0

One from the perspective of a mother

0:27.0

and the other from the perspective of a daughter.

0:30.0

The first story starts over 60 years ago

0:33.0

with a baby and a note.

0:36.0

It's called Left to Be Found.

0:43.0

I'm Yvonne Lou.

0:45.0

And this is my tiny love story.

0:52.0

She left me on a busy Hong Kong stairwell.

0:55.0

Not to die, but to be found.

0:58.0

It would take decades for me to receive her only message.

1:02.0

Until then, I knew her as a prostitute.

1:07.0

Uneducated, uncaring.

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