4.7 • 870 Ratings
🗓️ 3 April 2019
⏱️ 4 minutes
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We may wish it weren’t true but it is: You can’t control how you feel at any given moment. You CAN however, control your response to how you feel. And you can absolutely learn to control your emotions. When we don’t control our emotions, we run the risk of letting them control us by impacting our choices, decisions, and next moves without our consent. Learning how to control your emotions is a key element of having a tough mind and shifting your mind into the position of driver rather than passenger. The STOPP method is an excellent place to start.
LESSONS:
STOPP method for controlling emotions:
Stop
Take a deep breath
Observe
Pull back and take perspective
Proceed with the next right move
Remember, the more you practice the STOPP method during more even-keeled times, the more likely you are to remember to use it during stressful times.
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Host: Dr. Lara Pence
Synopsis: Dr. Lara Pence
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0:00.0 | Let's talk taking control of your emotions. |
0:03.4 | Hey Spartans, it's Dr. L. here, your chief mind doc with Spartan Mind, part of the Spartan Up Podcast family. |
0:15.3 | So I'm here every Wednesday helping you identify what are the things that are getting you stuck |
0:21.4 | up here in your mind and helping you get unstuck. |
0:25.0 | Today we're talking about controlling your emotions. |
0:29.0 | Now, this is sort of an obvious topic, right, in terms of why it's important to get control |
0:34.7 | of your motions, but just in case you're wondering, |
0:37.5 | it's helpful to control your emotions |
0:39.5 | so that your response is congruent |
0:41.8 | with what's happening. Sometimes emotions like anger, anxiety, |
0:47.0 | panic, discouragement, sadness can become inflated, right? |
0:53.7 | Especially if we're not particularly good at controlling our emotions. |
0:58.3 | And so I'm going to take you through a step by step process of one of the ways that you can learn to control your emotions better. |
1:07.0 | Because when our emotions are out of control, we make decisions and choices that actually may not be very good for us or another individual, right? |
1:16.0 | So if my emotions are out of control and all of a sudden my kiddos |
1:20.0 | spills milk on the ground and I go from like a little angry to like massively angry |
1:26.1 | then the way that I respond to my child may not be helpful at all right and I may |
1:31.4 | say something that I regret and makes them feel really bad. |
1:35.0 | And imagine this on the race course, right? |
1:38.0 | So let's say you're a little bit nervous about your performance, |
1:41.0 | but then all of a sudden panic ensues and you begin. about your |
1:45.0 | performance performance, |
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