LANDING IN LOVE: Is the settling-in phase the best stage of love?

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 41.1K Ratings

🗓️ 4 November 2021

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

1. How Glennon and Abby transitioned from the “falling in love” phase to “landing in love” at different times—and how Glennon felt “bamboozled” by it. 2. How the self-inflicted guilt of pursuing joy ruins everything. 3. Why a precious gift from Abby made Glennon feel like she’d finally landed in the right galaxy. 4. How the things about our partners that drive us nuts are the same things that attracted us to them. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi everybody!
0:12.5	You came back to We Can Do Hard Things.
0:15.3	We're thrilled about that.
0:16.7	Today, we are answering your questions, but we're going to start today by talking a little
0:21.2	bit more about love.
0:24.0	Our last episode was all about falling in love and the wild experience that that is.
0:30.2	And then the landing in love, which we discussed as the second part of love, when the chemical
0:36.5	imbalance of falling in love starts to rebalance and we're left with ourselves once again.
0:41.6	When the real love starts.
0:48.4	And how, if we don't know better, we could think that love has ended.
0:52.0	And really, it's kind of like the work of love actually begins.
0:56.2	So one of the things that people ask us a lot is when did we know?
1:02.6	Like when did you know that you were in love with me?
1:07.6	And sister is doing the air quotes.
1:10.0	The air quotes because she doesn't believe in knowing or anything.
1:14.0	She doesn't believe in anything.
1:16.0	She doesn't believe.
1:17.0	The sentence that doesn't believe.
1:19.0	She doesn't believe.
1:21.0	Like if sister were Ted Lasso, she would have a big sign over the locker room that says,
1:25.4	don't believe.
1:26.4	Don't believe.
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