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🗓️ 10 May 2018
⏱️ 158 minutes
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0:00.0 | Right about things that move you. |
0:05.0 | Whether being moved means being enraged, means being in love, whatever that is, you have |
0:12.0 | to write about something and from a place of, I need to tell this story rather than, I'm |
0:18.7 | going to write this to get this. |
0:21.3 | People are so worried about doing something that's going to mean to sell or something that |
0:26.8 | people want to hear, you know, rather than generating something that means something. |
0:32.8 | That's Kurt Sutter and this, well this, is the Retro podcast. |
0:37.9 | The Retro podcast. |
0:51.2 | So I have this confession I want to make. |
0:53.9 | I think it's fair to say that I can be a little bit of a people pleaser. |
1:00.8 | And I used to think of this as a positive quality, setting aside my needs, my perspective to make |
1:06.2 | somebody else comfortable. |
1:07.7 | Well, does not seem like a gracious thing to do. |
1:10.6 | I always thought so. |
1:12.2 | And it took years of sobriety before I was even fully aware of this default setting, |
1:17.6 | this thing that's kind of plugged into my DNA. |
1:20.3 | And even more years before I realized, you know what? |
1:23.4 | This people pleasing thing, it's really more of a character defect than a positive attribute. |
1:28.7 | And then even more years had to transpire before I began the process of trying to deconstruct |
1:34.4 | this character defect and begin the process of trying to overcome it. |
1:38.6 | And I got to tell you, it's something that I still really struggle with on a pretty regular |
1:43.0 | basis because you see at its core, people pleasing is really, it's a mark of insecurity. |
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