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Kouri Richins: How a Narcissist Chooses Their Target and Makes You Fall in Love

True Crime Today | Daily True Crime News & Interviews

Tony Brueski

True Crime, News Commentary, News

4.2612 Ratings

🗓️ 19 March 2026

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

The Kouri Richins murder case raised a question that goes far beyond the courtroom: what does the beginning of a relationship like this actually look like — and how does someone as grounded as Eric Richins not see it?

Psychotherapist Shavaun Scott joins Tony Brueski and Robin Dreeke to walk through the first phase of a relationship with someone who operates with narcissistic or borderline personality traits. The love bombing. The deliberate targeting. The performance of the early months that creates an attachment so deep it can survive almost anything that follows.

This conversation uses the Kouri Richins case as a framework to explore something millions of people are living through right now — without any idea what it actually is.

Shavaun Scott has spent over 30 years working with both victims and perpetrators of intimate partner violence. She knows what this looks like from every angle.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Hidden Killers Live with Tony Brewski and Robin Dree.

0:08.2

Nobody marries somebody they believe will destroy them.

0:11.4

They marry someone who feels like a missing piece, someone who shows up with everything they didn't know they needed.

0:16.7

That's not stupidity.

0:17.8

That's how this works.

0:19.5

Before we talk about what Corey Richards allegedly did, we need to understand what the

0:23.0

beginning of a relationship like this actually looks like, because the people most at risk

0:27.7

are often the strongest, most capable ones in the room.

0:32.3

And they're also unsuspecting of this type of behavior if they've never experienced before,

0:37.0

which makes them an easy mark

0:38.4

for folks like Corey Richens. But why? Why is it? Why is it that empathetic, loving, caring,

0:44.9

genuine human beings are a mark for certain types of personality with us to help break all of

0:52.9

this down. My co-host, Robin drake uh former fbi i had of the

0:57.7

fbi's behavioral intelligence uh counterintelligence behavioral analysis unit and chavon scott

1:03.9

psychotherapist and author chavon let's start with you why is it why was eric rich in such a mark

1:09.0

from what we know about his personality, his loving

1:12.0

affect, his nature, his goodness with the children, providing for his family, taking care of his

1:17.0

family, letting them, you know, doing everything he did. Why is that a mark for someone to just

1:22.3

latch onto and basically suck dry like a black widow? Yeah. Predators have an uncanny intuition for people who have a lot of empathy, people who have a work ethic,

1:35.4

people who make commitments and follow through, they have integrity, they try hard, and

1:41.0

predators are always looking for, what am I going to get out of this deal.

1:46.0

So they go into these relationships with this, you know, the popular term is love bombing,

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