In this episode of the JTrain podcast, Jared shares a thoughtful approach to nurturing intimacy in relationships: a once-a-month "peak and pit" date night. The idea is to create a regular space for connection where each partner shares their "peak" (the best moment or highlight of the month) and their "pit" (a challenging or low point). By framing the check-in this way, couples can celebrate their wins, acknowledge struggles, and foster open communication without the heaviness of a formal relationship talk. It’s about strengthening the bond through honesty and understanding.

Leandra agrees that adding a playful twist makes the practice feel less like a chore and more like an opportunity to deepen the relationship. She suggests couples find ways to make the night special — whether it’s dressing up for dinner, recreating a favorite date, or staying in for a cozy night with their favorite movie. The goal is to create an environment where both partners feel safe, heard, and connected.

An intimacy coach plays a pivotal role in guiding couples through practices like these. They help partners build emotional closeness, improve communication, and reignite passion by introducing tools for deeper connection. From helping couples navigate conflict to exploring new ways to cultivate physical and emotional intimacy, an intimacy coach encourages vulnerability and trust. They might offer personalized exercises, like the "peak and pit" check-in, to create intentional moments of reflection and bonding.

Together, Jared and Leandra emphasize that prioritizing intimacy doesn’t have to be complicated or heavy — it can be as simple as carving out time to laugh, share, and grow together. The key is consistency and a willingness to show up for each other, month after month.

Leandra Petroff is a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach. Book your free alignment call today at www.intimacywithleandra.com. Follow @intimacywithleandra for juicy tips and insights! 

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Jared Freid is a stand up comedian from Boston and who is currently based in New York City. Jared is known to give great dating advice and is all knowing of the Bachelor & Bachelorette nation! You can catch his latest comedy special on Netflix, “37 & Single”, where Jared discusses dating app frustrations to awkward setups to breakup justifications. (For the record, Jared’s mom thinks his body is “just fine.”) Besides regularly headlining and touring around the country, Jared hosts two podcasts called “The JTrain Podcast” and “U Up? Podcast” with Jordana Abraham of Betches, where they discuss their takes on modern dating with issues ranging from apps to hookups to relationships. Check out more of his comedy and a live show today! 👉https://jaredfreid.com/