Welcome back Barbie Adler from Selective Search.

She is a matchmaker and dating expert.

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thousand dollars.

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Hey, hello.

Hello.

So many women are so worked right now.

Like, everybody looks good.

No matter where you go, because if everybody's got the fake hair, the fake eyelashes,

all the makeup, the, you know, inexpensive,

slutty dresses, all of these things. Like, I'll be out. I, and it's like a sea of similar

women. And I never feel intimidated by women 30 years younger. I don't. I don't know why. I'm just

very, either confident or don't care. But I see that a lot of women, I was at, I keep talking about this, I haven't talked about it in a while,

but I was at an editor's dinner, beauty editors. Now, gorgeous young women, stunning, one prettier

than the other, what everybody was worked to, everybody smelled good, the long hair, the curves,

the shape, work, they worked it. And they all looked very similar. And they were all saying to me,

like, how do we meet men? It's so hard. And I'm looking at them thinking, what the fuck is going on here?

Like these women, because I do feel that there's a way to position yourself where you don't just

look like a basic bee. You don't just look like a basic bee that is trying so hard to show

the boobs, the legs, the blinged out purse, the sparkle makeup, the long lashes, the hair.

Like men judge that too. They look at that and they, you could be a rocket scientist dressed like

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