So my wife with an elite level Christmas time move a couple days ago where I've just been, you know, throwing out a few hints like,

I really haven't been doing that much Christmas shopping, haven't bought many gifts.

Like, what do you want for Christmas?

And I think this is the second or third year where she just shows me something like on her phone,

like, I'm going to order this

and you can just give this to me. And this can be my main present. And that's, that's just,

that's music to most, I think most guys and husband's ears. When you've been married for a long time,

it's like true, but does you want a surprise? Yeah, I mean, I'll get her other surprises, but for her to come up to fill in that gap,

because there's clearly a gift gap there, was big.

I was appreciative that she made that move.

Right.

That's a good move.

I like to have somewhat of a surprise.

Do you?

But it doesn't have to be big.

I just don't want them to know because then I feel like it's, you know, like my kids do that a lot.

I'm sure your kids do it too where like as it gets closer, your mom or something will buy something with them and go, I'll give this to you on Christmas.

Yeah.

You know, I'll wrap this for you. You can open up on Christmas Day.

Right.

That's kind of lame.

Right?

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