JOHN KIM | How a Man Leads in Relationships

Order of Man

Ryan Michler

Business, Health, Leadership, Relationships, Man, Society & Culture, Intellect, Style, Lifestyle, Money, Selfdevelopment, Wealth, Fitness, Selfhelp, Nutrition

4.8 • 9K Ratings

🗓️ 31 December 2024

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances. Relationships are no different. It’s a great to reflect on what is working well, what isn’t, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves in break-ups, separation, and divorce on the tail-end of the holidays.

My guest today, Licensed Therapist, John Kim, joins me to talk about the different types of break-ups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships. But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships (and, how to avoid them), the differences between healthy and unhealthy love, how ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across needy, obnoxious, or over-bearing, and so much more.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 – Episode Introduction
00:40 – The Reality of Breakups
01:50 – Intentionality in Relationships
03:19 – Types of Breakups: Understanding the Differences
07:09 – Healthy vs. Unhealthy Love
10:59 – Turning Breakups into Breakthroughs
15:15 – Balancing Self-Discipline and Self-Compassion
18:52 – Living in the Moment vs. Pursuing Goals
23:49 – Embracing Solitude and Self-Discovery
27:50 – Compromise vs. Self-Abandonment in Relationships
33:11 – Repairing Ruptures: Building Trust in Relationships
39:00 – Rewriting Your Narrative and Emotional Growth
43:12 – Swimming Past the Breakers: Building Resilient Love
50:09 – Reflecting on Expired Relationships
53:47 – 31 Days to Rebuild: A Practical Approach to Healing
57:19 – Therapy, Coaching, and Corrective Experiences

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0:00.0	Around this time of year, people begin to evaluate their life choices and circumstances.
0:06.5	Relationships guys are no different. It's a great time to reflect on what is working well,
0:11.6	what isn't, and maybe even what is no longer worth pursuing. In fact, many people find themselves
0:18.4	in breakups, separation, and divorce on the tail end of the holidays.
0:23.6	My guest today licensed therapist John Kim joins me to talk about the different types of breakups and breakdowns that occur in romantic relationships.
0:32.2	But we also talk about common themes you see in ending relationships and how to avoid them, the differences between
0:39.4	healthy and unhealthy love, how what John calls ruptures in a relationship can lead to some of the
0:46.5	biggest relational breakthroughs, how to communicate what you need without coming across
0:51.5	needy, obnoxious, or overbearing, and so much more.
0:55.6	You're a man of action.
0:57.2	You live life to the fullest.
0:58.6	Embrace your fears and boldly chart your own path.
1:01.5	When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time.
1:06.0	You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong.
1:14.2	This is your life. This is who you are. This is who you will become. At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, you can call yourself a man.
1:23.0	Gentlemen, welcome to the Order of Man podcast. This will be the very last podcast for 2024 if you are
1:30.7	like me you also believe that this year went by way too quickly uh i cannot believe how fast it went
1:37.4	a lot of good things a lot of ups and downs new relationship for me personally growth in the business
1:46.7	connecting with my kids watching them, seeing one of my kids turn 16, so he's driving now, and dance recitals and basketball
1:53.2	games and all the things that come with kids. And of course, the growth of our Brotherhood,
1:57.5	the Iron Council, which is actually open for enrollment as we speak right now.
2:02.7	So if you're interested in that, make sure you check that out.
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