Jodi Hildebrandt Coercive Control: How She Took Over Ruby Franke's Family
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Tony Brueski
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๐๏ธ 11 March 2026
โฑ๏ธ 17 minutes
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Summary
Jodi Hildebrandt was a licensed therapist who built a life coaching business called ConneXions. Former clients describe it as a cult. Seven told NBC News she "methodically separated spouses" and destroyed marriages through isolation, shame, and constant surveillance.
Her niece reported abuse in 2009 โ tied up, duct taped, forced to sleep in snow. Nothing happened.
Fourteen years later, Ruby Franke's children were found bound and starving in Jodi's house. Both women are serving four to thirty years for aggravated child abuse.
Part 2 of "The Good Mother" examines how Jodi gained total control over the Franke family โ and what the case reveals about coercive control psychology.
Ruby met Jodi around 2019 while seeking help with her eldest son. Jodi offered validation: a framework that justified Ruby's strict parenting as righteous, and labeled anyone who questioned her as "living in deception."
By 2021, Jodi had moved into the Franke home. Kevin was pushed out. Ruby's siblings, parents, extended family โ all tried to intervene. All were cut off.
This is the mechanics of coercive control. Isolation. Dependency. A framework that makes the victim believe everyone else is the enemy.
In a jail call after her arrest, Ruby reflected on being separated from Jodi for the first time in years: "Being gone and not hearing her has cleared a lot of things up for me."
Jodi showed no reflection. She reportedly still recruits vulnerable people from prison.
A federal lawsuit now accuses both women of fraud and racketeering through ConneXions โ claiming "thousands" had their lives destroyed.
This episode examines how helpers become captors, what coercive control looks like, and why families often can't stop what they see happening.
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| 0:00.0 | This is Hidden Killers with Tony Bruske. |
| 0:03.2 | Here now, Tony Bruske. |
| 0:06.5 | In 2009, a teenager named Jesse Hildebrandt went to police in Utah with allegations against her aunt. |
| 0:15.2 | You're probably taking a wild guest now. |
| 0:17.3 | Jesse Hildebrandt in Utah, who the aunt possibly be well yeah her name's |
| 0:22.5 | Jody yeah Jody Ruby that group that's what we're talking about today Jesse said they had been |
| 0:28.1 | tied up duct tape forced to sleep outside in the snow told they were dangerous to be around and needed |
| 0:35.0 | to be isolated from other people. |
| 0:38.3 | The aunt was Jody Hildebrand, a licensed mental health counselor who ran a life coaching business called Connections. |
| 0:46.3 | She specialized in helping Mormon families work through their problems. |
| 0:50.3 | Police investigated. Nothing happened. No charges, no consequences, and Jody kept her license. |
| 0:56.5 | She kept her client. She kept teaching parents how to discipline children and spouses, how to |
| 1:01.4 | communicate, and families, how to live, and what she called truth. |
| 1:06.3 | Fourteen years later, two more children would be found bound and starving in Jody Hildebrand's house. |
| 1:12.5 | And by then, she had already destroyed dozens of families one by one, client by client, |
| 1:17.5 | while the system that was supposed to oversee her looked the other way. |
| 1:22.0 | This is part two of the good mother. |
| 1:25.5 | It's about how helpers become captors. |
| 1:29.8 | If you ever watch someone you love fall under the influence of a therapist, coach, or mentor in a negative way, |
| 1:36.5 | who slowly took over their life. |
| 1:38.7 | If you've been cut off, labeled toxic, and told you were the problem, |
| 1:43.5 | then you understand this story in a way most |
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