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Welcome back to Golden Hour, everyone.

We are back for part two.

I'm so excited.

Let's get right into it.

Every week, Joan, and by the way, thank you for, if I haven't said that yet, thank you for coming in and helping me do this while Susan is unavailable.

Yeah. I'm so much fun. I appreciate you guys ask me. Yeah. I love being here. Okay. So usually, you know, every week, we answer some questions from listeners and we give them our expert golden advice and you are golden right along with me. So start us off with the first one of you. And by the way, I listen to these every week that you do them. So I feel like maybe I might be good at this. I don't know, but let's give me a try. Okay, the first one is Kelsey from Kansas City. and she says, I've been dating this guy for about

three months now, and I really like him, but he has never planned a proper date.

Every time we hang out, it's like, come over and watch something or a last minute drink.

I've hinted that I like when someone takes initiative, but nothing has changed.

Do I say something directly, or is this just who he is?

Oh, what do you think, John? I think, okay, this is the advice that I give everyone that people don't know

unless you tell them. And I think you have tried to be really nice and hint at it and you need to say it right out. He's not going to read your mind. He's not getting the hints. And if you say it right out and he still doesn't do it, I'd say maybe move on. I can't disagree with you. I love your advice. Boy, Susan, I always argue. You're much easier. You and I agree. I'm afraid that we might on most of these.

Yeah, but I will say, every time we hang out, it's like come over and watch something or a last

minute drink. That doesn't even sound like a date to me. I totally agree. So, Kelsey, I think

Jones, right, have a conversation with him, but you've only been dating three months.

This is like the honeymoon of the dating experience. And if he is not overloading you with text,

phone calls, dates, flowers, making you feel like the special woman, I'm sure you are. He may not be your guy.

Or as the movie, it says, he may not just, he may not be that into you.

So I think you're so right.

This is the honeymoon stage and that a proper date is the starting point.

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