Lovers. We are back with an update from our past guest Kimberly from episode 34.

What was the name of your episode? I am not nice to myself when I masturbate Kimberly's Virgin stories.

So Kimberly, when was that?

Three years ago? Two years ago, three years ago?

Almost four years ago. In June.

Was it four? June 2019. Mm-hmm. Well that makes sense because that's math.

Oh my god so that was almost four years ago.

What the fuck has been happening since in your sex life?

Well, I'm not a virgin anymore. Also I'm in love so that's fun.

How do you feel about the word virgin now? I know we use sexual debut a lot. Do you have strong feelings? I get a lot of

comments about Virgin so I just want to talk about it. I knew since I was 16 that I didn't

want to be a Virgin but that was more about experiencing sex than like any shame associated with being a virgin and I also didn't feel

any shame when I told my partner that I was a virgin which was really nice and I'm not sure how I avoided the shame connotation with

being a virgin but I appreciate it brain so thanks shameless I love it so

where do you want to start do you want to start with like hot details what you've loved?

I love that you're counting orgasms or do you want to talk about like how you decided it was time?

Where do you pick? Where do you want to start?

Well, so me losing my virginity is so strongly tied with starting seeing

my partner so I think maybe I'll go through a bit of a timeline with that. So it was July of last year. We'd known each

other for a little over two years at that point, but we were just friends. We were in the

gaming space together and had played games together online pretty regularly for those two years, and then they were coming out to visit, and both of us at the same time sort of were like hey you're

going to be here in person maybe we should do something about that. And so they came out to visit and within seven hours they had

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