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Aubrey Marcus Podcast

Jealousy, Comedy & Fidelity In A Post-Conventional Relationship | Joshua Draper, Vylana Marcus #503

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Aubrey Marcus

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4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 July 2025

⏱️ 124 minutes

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Summary

When I shared the podcast announcing our post-conventional relationship, it  ricocheted around the social metaverse, evoking sharp criticism. One potential reason is that the beauty of the lovership between my wife Vylana and Joshua Draper was not properly explicated. For some people, a relationship where there can be more than monogamy is heresy. I respect that opinion, and my wife Vylana and I stand proudly in the claiming that there are many types of relationships that can be totally sacred. 


Joshua Draper is an extraordinarily talented improv comedian, musician and philosopher. In this podcast we discuss how to move beyond the challenges of jealousy and how true brotherhood can be a valued outcome of this type of relating. We also get to play some improv games, which has been one of the great gifts of including Joshua in our relationship constellation. 


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Transcript

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0:00.0

I first knew Joshua Draper as a basketball player. He was one of the homies I used to play ball with,

0:06.1

but then he caught my wife's eye. And ultimately, in our expanded relationship constellation,

0:14.1

there was an opening for Vailana Marcus and Joshua Draper to explore what that possibility might look like.

0:24.0

And what emerged was an incredible amount of beauty and gifts,

0:29.8

not only on the musical side of things, which Josh is incredibly musically talented,

0:35.2

but also the gift of improv, an art form that's both ancient

0:41.1

and modern, and allows you to tap into those internal, instinctual forces of what's alive

0:49.4

right now in the present moment. So this podcast explores not only the nuances of an expanded relationship

0:57.8

container, but also the beauty of improv as an art form for both laughter and celebration and also

1:05.8

catharsis and also exploration of who you are as a human being. So I hope you guys enjoy this podcast with Bailana Marcus and Joshua Draper.

1:13.6

Before we get started, a word from our sponsors.

1:16.6

I've always been a collector since I was a kid.

1:19.6

Whether it was sports cards, magic cards,

1:23.6

comics, stamps, or coins,

1:25.6

and as I've gotten older, I've transitioned to collecting original art.

1:30.3

I also believe in precious metals as one of the safest and most stable stores of wealth.

1:36.3

The impossibly cool thing about my new company Metal Mark as part of the Aubrey Marcus Collective

1:42.3

is that it combines both of

1:44.9

these things that I love fully assayable and recoverable fractional gold notes

1:51.7

paired with impossibly beautiful cool and collectible limited edition art so

1:58.7

if for some reason you don't like the art anymore or the art loses its value,

2:02.6

you can always just keep the gold. If any other class of art loses its value, all you are left with is paper,

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