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Tiffany and Nick on the eve of this fifth anniversary and they are having a

little problem in the bedroom.

Nick and Tiffany are a Knoxville couple whose sex life died the night they got married.

We've probably had sex less than 20 times in the five years that we've been married.

Tiffany first met Nick eight years ago. From the minute I met him, I knew that that was the person I was going to marry.

We used to be very intimate, just always holding hands, always kissing.

It took three weeks to consulate our marriage.

I think not doing it that first night, kind of got the engine rolling for Tiffany.

It's humiliating.

It makes me feel like that I'm not good enough,

that I've just been kind of tossed to the side

and used for when he needs me.

Tiffany desperately wanted to be a mother.

Because they so rarely have sex sex she decided to adopt.

Tiffany and Nick believe if their sex life doesn't improve, their marriage could be over.

I'm unhappy because I don't feel loved. I don't feel like I have a friend and my husband.

I feel ignored and I feel really, really lonely. The nagging, the controlling, just the way you're spoken to through today, it makes me feel small.

Have I considered divorce? Absolutely. I don't believe I can live this way for the rest of my life.

Sex is 10% of the deal. It's an important 10%, but it's 10%.

There is something else, many things else, that are missing.

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