Let me tell you who I am.

I am a survivor, a teenage mother, a welfare recipient, and a woman.

I am a teacher, life coach, minister, lawyer, and author.

I've had my share of breakups, breakdowns, and breakthroughs.

I did my work and put my life back together piece by piece. I am I Yanla Van Zand,

and I am here to help you do your work. Previously, on I Amla Fix My Life, Two Gay Pastors, Living a

Lie. How do you go into God's house with your heart full of? I'm wrong. I'm inadequate,

and God doesn't love me. Loved ones finally hear the truth. When you're dead, you know, you want your son to be like you.

I'm still trying to grasp it. A family devastated by years of deception.

Between 2006 and 2008, I had affairs with five different men.

Tell her what that means that you had affairs.

Book chapter and verse.

Ionla tackles an emotionally charged issue head on.

Do you tell your children that their father going to hell?

You all are going to have to do this together.

Otherwise, these kids are going to be ripped to shreds.

You've got to understand that there are some people that will never sit in your ministry.

Ever.

There will be a price to pay for this.

Part 3 starts now.

I'm here in Kentucky where I'm doing some important work with two men, both pastors, both gay.

Although he was attracted to men, Mitchell married Tiffany, a single mother of three,

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