Let me tell you who I am.

I am a survivor, a teenage mother, a welfare recipient, and a woman.

I am a teacher, life coach, minister, lawyer, and author.

I've had my share of breakups, breakdowns, and breakthroughs.

I did my work and put my life back together piece by piece. I am I Yonla Van Zand,

and I am here to help you do your work. I'm here in Novi, Michigan, right outside the Moda

City, Detroit, to work with a family that is in breakdown.

I received a heartbreaking email from a woman named Felicia.

I was confident within myself.

But once the problem with my health began, I felt the confidence fading away.

A few years ago, I had some major medical problems with my female organs. It impact everything. It's like you riding on a roller coaster, you know, and I was just up and down,

depressed, emotional.

After suffering through years of medical issues and a hysterectomy, Felicia faced another tragedy.

After a night out with her husband Don, the couple got into a heated argument and crashed their car into a pole.

Don walked away uninjured, but Felicia wasn't as fortunate. Both of her legs were broken, very bad, so I had to carry her out the car.

I was in a wheelchair. I had to learn how to walk again.

With all the problems I was having, it was times I couldn't have sex, like for a

long period of time. I always heard was if you don't please

your man, somebody else will. Don, a self-employed contractor, has been married to Felicia for 13 years,

and they have four children, the two oldest children from Felicia's previous relationships.

But Felicia's medical issues left her mentally and physically scarred.

And in the midst of her pain, she became insecure, angry, and pushed down away.

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