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Is Venting the Same as Complaining?

Ask Pastor John

Desiring God

John Piper, Unknown, 163859, Pastor, Ask, Theology, Desiring God, Religion & Spirituality/christianity, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Questions

4.83.8K Ratings

🗓️ 17 March 2023

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

Is there really a difference between complaining about our problems and venting about them — or are we just kidding ourselves?

Transcript

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0:00.0

Happy Friday, everyone on the podcast we've looked at grumbling, and we've looked at complaining

0:11.3

several times actually.

0:13.2

But what about venting?

0:14.5

Or is venting just a nice word for complaining?

0:18.4

This question has been asked by several listeners recently.

0:21.1

Here are two examples of those questions.

0:22.9

One is from Allison, Pastor Jen Hello.

0:24.6

My friend and I have long discussed if there's a difference between complaining and

0:27.4

venting.

0:28.8

Our desire is to be mindful of our heart's reaction to tough situations.

0:33.0

How do we as believers express frustrations to those closest to us to bear one another's

0:38.6

burdens without falling into misery loves company?

0:43.4

Is there a difference between complaining and venting?

0:47.5

Or are we kidding ourselves?

0:50.5

Another listener named Sina, S-I-N-A Sina writes this to Pastor John Thank you and Thigh

0:56.0

Utone for this podcast.

0:57.0

It's an incredible blessing in my life.

0:59.6

My question is this, is venting the same thing as grumbling?

1:03.9

Philippians 214 commands us to do all things without grumbling or disputing.

1:09.0

Does this apply to venting as well?

1:11.3

I am in a stressful graduate school environment and complaining is the norm among students.

1:17.6

Over the years I have distinguished between complaining versus venting.

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