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We are in our trauma.

We are trauma responding.

Our abandonment is choosing for us.

Our abandonment is present and inflamed.

And it says, I need to be needed.

I need someone to need me.

Do you want my mouthpiece, my conversation, my intellect, my dominance, my submission, my softness,

do you want me?

We have a group of black men who have mommy issues and they grow up to date us and we end up

being the issue.

And if you don't hit that list, then that person doesn't have value.

If y'all ladies don't take anything from this episode,

you have to...

You have to... Do you know how long it took me to discover boundaries and how to implement them?

I thought I confused boundaries with standards a lot.

Wow, that's a good one.

Growing up.

And I think a lot of people do.

Explain that because that's so good.

So your standards can be, you know, what you think you deserve,

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