Hey guys, I have a bit of a moral dilemma. I've been talking to this guy for a bit,

and I've grown to like him. He's funny, good looking, very patient with me, and we dislike

and like the same things. I love spending time with him and i miss him when we're

not together i usually get sick of people's presence after a while but i say but i find myself craving

his craving him all the time with that being said i don't really see a future with him ah

nothing wrong with him but he doesn't fulfill everything i would want in a partner for For example, he's a lukewarm Christian, whereas I'm more devoted. This hasn't caused any problems so far, but I think it's just a preference for me. I was listening to one of your episodes and you girls talked about how it's still fine to talk to date and talk to guys, even if they don't fit, every criteria is the one where Tammy said she dated a four year old. The thing is, I did actually date a 40 year old. I went on one day. And please, oh, faith is not something to be, she was, she on. But yeah. You know what? We need to be careful what we say, oh. That's what somebody has said they translated into our episode. Look at how you're impacting people's lives. They're now saying that when their friends ask them, oh, why are you intending this guy? Because I'm a podcast said it's a guy and there's one guy. Hey, Edge. Like that, she said, I dated a 40-0. That's what I'm saying. I went on one day and I asked the questions I needed to ask and I never saw that person again. Guy. That is fine. Actually, I did see him again but just ran into him. Anyway, but yeah, she said that she dated a four year old just for vibes low. But I also fear it might be a waste of time and a waste of emotion because I don't want to be overly committed to someone I know I don't want to be with forever going with the flow sounds

fun until I'm having to heal from something I could have avoided but I've also been very hurt

in the past so I'm generally very hesitant to get into anything with someone and trust them

help do I end things before they get before I get too emotionally invested or do I wait and see where this goes?

Because he is a great guy after all, but I also don't want to feel like I'm leading him on.

By the way, I love you girls endlessly.

Ah, thank you.

Did I just want this on page on?

She didn't.

Oh, check actually. I don't know what did you say Does she want it just on Patreon I don't know what This is Patreon though No but I'm saying I'm saying If we were to Oh she didn't say anything Oh she didn't say anything Oh no I'm saying in the replies Let me check But I don't think so Because I've read it today because I didn't realize that you'd already. Yeah, she didn't say anything. Okay, cool.

Yeah. let me check but I don't think so because I've read it today because I didn't realize that you'd already yeah she didn't say anything okay okay cool um yeah what do you think oh um yeah I think

you've answered your own question I'm not gonna lie like you've you've listed all the points

and the reasons why you shouldn't be dating him and I agree like he's's not, he's, you said you're devoted to Christianity and like your relationship

with Christ and like he's not.

He's still a lukewarm Christian and like is still I guess working that out for himself.

Like I don't necessarily, it doesn't seem like you guys are aligned just because you like

and dislike the same things.

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