Huh, Ferture.

When you look back at your wedding and your wedding guest list, what do you think the percentage

of people was that you really, truly wanted there as opposed to the ones that you felt

obligated to or there was some kind of political reason they had to be there?

I feel like you run into this problem more when if you get married younger than if you

get married older and also depending on who's paying for the wedding.

Because your parents can have a lot of influence as to who's on that guest list.

Right.

Whereas for Bart and I, we just got married five years ago.

So we were both older.

We pretty much hand picked our guest list.

Did you?

Yeah.

In this email here, she's wondering if she has to or she can uninvite her ex-boss, right?

Because I think she invited him when she was working for him or her and then left the

job and is wondering, can I just tell the boss that look, you're really not invited.

I was just doing it because we were working together.

It's a bold move to unadvite somebody to your wedding.

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