Is It Ok To Think About Other Women In Bed?

Man School 202

Dante Nero

Comedy, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 1.5K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2025

⏱️ 19 minutes

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This week Dante and Harry take calls from a man who sometimes thinks of other women when he’s with his wife, in bed. Is it ok, or I it cheating, and what can people do when they want to spice up their s-- lives.

Also we watch a video of a woman who refuses to go to the Olive Garden on a date. Is she reasonable or just a gold digger.

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0:00.0	Your first great love story is free when you sign up for a free 30-day trial at audible.com.
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0:11.4	When we're having to, I tend, my mind tends to, like, think of one of my previous girls or one of my previous encounters.
0:19.1	Two things. One, do you do that every time? And then two, are you attracted to your girl? Is she, do you find her attracted? I'm not an alpha male. I'm not a beta male either. I'm just a better man. Better man. I've been having, uh, it's not an issue, really. It's more so, so I've been with my girl and, uh, I love her. She's good. Everything's good. Mm-hmm. I've noticed that when we're having sex, uh, I tend, my mind tends to like, think of, you know, I remember so and so from, you know, so I picture my girl being, you know, my previous, one of my previous girls or one of my previous encounters.
0:55.8	Okay.
0:56.2	Okay.
0:57.7	So, like, and then I know you have a pun on here talking about, you know, his book and what this meant, but I don't know.
1:04.8	So is that wrong of me?
1:08.3	Am I, you know, I want to say cheating because I'm cheating because I know I'm not cheating about it.
1:12.3	Do you, do you're not telling her this, right?
1:15.7	Obviously not.
1:16.8	Okay.
1:17.1	And does it, does it help your performance in the bedroom that the fact that you fantasize about other people?
1:26.3	You know what?
1:27.4	Yeah.
1:28.0	Yeah, I will say, okay, oh, it's all that's all yeah, the batty with the fatty. Boom. Okay, so let me answer this. Do you, are you, are you cheating on it? No. Yeah, I don't see a problem. I don't see a problem either. I mean, that's, you know, that, I don't do it every time, but I've done that occasionally opens, but you do it every time? Here's a question, Tony. Two things. One, do you do that every time? And then, two, are you attracted to your girl? Is she, do you find her attracted? Attractive? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. My girl is beautiful. I'm very attracted to her. Do you do it every time?
2:02.9	No. Okay. No, but you know, there's this, I don't know. It's just my mind like,
2:07.6	after a while, I just, okay, I wander off. My mind wanders off to my previous encounters.
2:13.1	Well, let me say this. I don't think it's a problem, but I would say that the sex would be better with your girl if you focused on your girl.
2:26.6	Now, I'm not saying you can't fantasize.
2:28.9	I mean, people dress up and they, you know, they have sex games,
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