I think healthy friendships don't require you to like constantly audit over and over and over again.

What did I do? Why am I being left out? Why are they hanging out without me? Why did she fuck all these guys in my wedding?

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Welcome back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat.

Welcome back.

It is late in the day.

Ashley.

It was like 5 p.m. I don't know how you're having a coffee. You're having like a 4.39 p.m. coffee. This is not typical Raina Greenberg. I feel like I asked you two questions today that are crazy that I don't know about you. Because like you and I are like partners in life. I just assume that like we would, I would know everything about you. I asked you, do you have TV on as background noise?

Yes.

Which I think it's a pretty common thing to know about your partner in life.

Like, do you, and I didn't know the answer to that?

Like, do you passively have TV in the background? You said no. But you knew I didn't like go to sleep with a TV on. No, I just mean like when you're working during the day, a lot of people are like, I'm TV on in the background.

I wasn't sure.

And then I also ask you what your relationship is to coffee at different times of the day.

Like, you know, most people are like, oh, I can't look at a cup of coffee after 3 p.m. Oh, you do. Drink an afternoon coffee plenty of time. I've seen, I've seen you drink nighttime coffee before we do shows. Yeah. But we need energy for that. So that's different. I've never really thought about it. You didn't know if I had a cut off. I didn't know if you were like, oh, after 4 p.m. I can't, I'll never go to sleep. If I was that person, I would have said it in eight years. I'm saying, I don't know. Well, that's because I'm self-involved. I don't listen to people. No. I can drink coffee anytime all day long. I can mainline coffee. But I was saying I don't have some like,

oh, if I have it after this hour, I'll never fall asleep. I wouldn't drink it at 10 p.m. And then try to go to sleep at 11. And I typically don't have it after dinner. But sometimes I might. Sometimes I'd be having coffee. Yeah. I do have espresso martinis.

I do have espresso martinis at dinner.

Oh, yeah.

I don't know if this is interesting to anybody. But seriously. That'll keep you up, I feel like. But that's the sugar, that's alcohol, all the things. What a hot take. That's like a red bull and vodka. That guy one time, he's a Bravo Liberty. him and I were just hanging out all night.

He could buy me espresso martinis.

I had four.

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