Here, Bercia.

So is it a red flag if the guy you're dating has no local friends?

Zero local friends, Cassie.

So my friends started dating a dude and when they started dating she met a couple of people

that he had hung out with occasionally.

He felt like part of their group but he never instigated anything like they always contacted

him and she liked them.

But since they started dating more seriously, he doesn't see them at all.

He actually has no friends that he hangs out with outside of her.

He does have friends from college who are in different states.

So he talks to them.

He talks to them almost daily.

They're like five of them in the group.

So she knows that he can make friendships and maintain them with people but there's

no one locally.

Like she has never seen him go out to get beers with anyone to go hang out with the

dudes or even any girlfriends like not at nothing.

But she's wondering if that's a red flag or if she's just looking for problems because

clearly he can maintain friendships.

I don't know.

I think it's weird.

No local friends like none after ten years.

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